More to swinging than partner swapping
Swinger lifestyle practises include virtually all forms of group sex from threesomes to Greedy Girl parties and it should not be considered as being restricted to couple partner swapping. Many swinger couples enjoy all of these activities and welcome the participation of singles.
Adult dating opens the door for singles
The key to opening the door to a swinging lifestyle for single males is undoubtedly joining a good online adult dating site. By a good one, I mean one that provides access to the largest possible network of active members who are specifically interested in adventurous, swinger lifestyle fun. The site needs to be nationwide and have a good selection of single females and swinger couples members who are eager to hook up for swinger lifestyle activities in every area.
By joining the right site and going about things the right way, a single male can get into the swinger lifestyle and enjoy as much activity as a swinger couple.
The best way to get started is to make your first goal a threesome with a couple who are interested in having sex with an extra male. Get a few of this type of threesome experiences under your belt and then start using the contacts you will have made to get invitations to swinger parties.
Adult parties that accept single males
Whilst you are still building your relationships with swinger couples with the aim of attending regular swinger parties, you could attend some adult parties that allow unaccompanied single males.
The main advantage of this kind of party is that you can attend alone without a partner. They also give you an opportunity to get some beginners experience of adult party activities and can prove a fertile source of swinger lifestyle contacts for you. However, there are also a few disadvantages. Firstly, this type of adult party often has an entry fee that unaccompanied males have to pay. Secondly, some venues fail to enforce quota systems of males attending, causing the events to be heavily imbalanced in their male to female ratio. You should also be wary of some so called swinger clubs who stage very seedy parties where the only females attending are actually prostitutes providing a very limited and mechanical service.
Swinger parties – the ultimate pleasure
For most successful single males, the ultimate pleasures of the swinger lifestyle comes about when he has reached the stage where regular access to group sex in all its forms, including partner swapping is possible. For this to occur he will have found a regular party partner from his online adult dating efforts.
This is the stage at which the door to couple only swinger clubs and swinger parties is opened for you.
The best swinger clubs offer some very good parties and facilities but in some ways a swinger club event is less fun than a swinger party held in a nice private residence. The highly intimate atmosphere of a privately hosted party in someone’s home somehow creates a very special, erotically charged ambience which outweighs anything the facilities of a swinger club can generate. Most events of this kind are available by invitation only. As a single male who has reached the stage where your network of swinger couples and single females provides invitations to attend the privately hosted parties, you will truly be able to experience the swinger lifestyle at its best.
It is hoped that Wendy Peters’ articles will be of of serious interest and help to couples and singles who are interested in adult dating or finding out more about the swinger lifestyle. More help and support of this kind is always available from our swingers club to visitors and members. By joining Club Aphrodite you will have access to the largest, nationwide database of active single females and swinger couples eager to have a fulfilling swinger lifestyle.